His secret obsession
How to Make Him Fall in Love with You Faster
Do you ever feel gut about someone the instant you meet them?
You know it’s not because of what they said or did when that happens.
It’s some signal you read in their facial expression, vocal tone, or body language.
Surprisingly, researchers have found that we are accurate with these rapid assessments of other people.
The simple fact is you know things about a person the second you meet them. And you react to these unspoken signals automatically.
If you’re good at reading people, you may not find it surprising that men and women notice different signals when interacting with a potential mate.
His secret obsession
It explains the hidden signal that either repels a man or makes him irresistibly attracted to you.
Otherwise, please keep reading to learn about a particular signal you’re broadcasting to men all the time (whether you know it or not).
It probably is different from what you would expect.
You see, there’s a specific kind of body language men can’t ignore.
It’s a signal that can spark romantic feelings. Or it can repel, depending on what reading from your nonverbal cues.
Would you like to know what His secret obsession is?
Men Are Extremely Sensitive to Something in Your Body Language That You Would Never Expect.
Women often ask me for the words to make a man want you. But the secret to making someone fall in love with you goes deeper.
Your ability to broadcast the right non-verbal message makes all the difference in attracting the kind of man you want.
If you’ve been attracting attention from guys who fail to connect with you on a deep, emotional level, I can show you why.
You’re sending out just one confusing signal without realizing it.
With the wrong signal, you end up with this:
- Attention from the wrong kind of guys. The ones you aren’t interested in.
- Initial attraction that later fades with the one guy you wanted to attract.
- A slow and painful death for your relationship’s attraction and passion.
But with a slight adjustment, you could always send the proper signal. And you’d end up getting results more like this:
- Passion that intensifies the longer you’re together
- A guy who feels protective of you
- A deep feeling of private exclusivity as he lets you into his inner world
The difference can be dramatic. And it all comes down to this one signal I’m about to show you.
To explain this signal, think of yourself as a radio tower.
You are constantly broadcasting a message to the men in your life. And there’s one “channel” he can’t tune out.
That’s because men have emotional “antennas” explicitly designed to detect this one kind of signal.
Ready to find out which signal I’m talking about? Ok, here it is.
He reads your nonverbal cues to find out where you “rank him” compared with other men.
He reads your body language to see how he measures up in your eyes. Does she respect me? Or am I her plaything?
Does she look up to me in some ways? Does she value me compared to other men? Or is she just settling?
Why are men so sensitive to this one signal?
Because oddly enough, this signal tells him how you compare him to other men. So it influences how he feels about himself whenever he’s around you.
And it’s incredible how much this one signal affects his emotions.
In relationships, people don’t tell us what we really want to know.
We have to listen to what’s written between the lines.
This kind of “listening” determines how we feel about each person we meet. And when it comes to romantic relationships, it tells us far more than spoken words.
Now tell me this. Which man would you instead commit to for life?
A man who compliments your beauty but seems to have difficulty keeping his eyes off other women? Or a man who is reserved with this compliments but appears to have eyes only for you?
The truth is, no one wants to end up with someone just settling. Instead, you want to feel desired.
Men are no different. But what makes men feel desired is very different from what makes women feel desired.
For example, research shows men often confuse love and respect. A man only wants to be loved by a romantic partner if she also holds him in high regard compared with other men.
Otherwise, it just feels like motherly love. That’s not what he wants. It’s not how he wants to perceive himself in his primary relationship.
And that’s why
Women often send mixed signals to the guy they’re interested in without knowing it.
It happens accidentally. And I have to tell you, and it’s not your fault.
Society has changed too fast for men and women to adapt to the rapid changes. We are left scrambling.
Nearly every culture used to have a clear set of expectations.
Those expectations guided men and women through connecting with a lifelong partner.
Demonstrations of mutual admiration were built into the process of courtship.
But those clear expectations are a thing of the past. These days, each couple has to invent their path, dancing around unspoken expectations and feelings of uncertainty.
And there’s something that often gets lost in our modern courtship.
I’m talking about the ancient art of communicating desire through the language of admiration. It’s where the phrase “You have an admirer” came from.
His secret obsession is he doesn’t want you to settle.
He wants to feel like you see him as the ultimate catch.
Otherwise, it deflates his ego. And with it, his passion for the relationship reduces too.
He can’t picture himself with a woman who looks up to other men more than she looks up to him.
But this is where things get confusing.
Many women want to make their men feel loved.
But a woman’s idea of loving communication is very different than a man’s.
How do you communicate your true feelings to a man? And why are men so sensitive to tiny signals about where you rank them compared with other men?
To dive deeper into that question, I put together a video presentation on the topic.
It explains the most powerful signals you can use to grab a man’s attention.
After watching this video, many women are surprised to learn how much control they have over a man’s self-esteem.
And I was even more surprised by how easy it is to make someone cherish you and want to invest in the relationship.
Many of us tend to buy gifts we would like to receive ourselves. It can be like that with love. We try to love our partner the way we want to be loved.
So you make him feel special. Yet he seems unaffected by that. You speak your native love language to him. He speaks another.
But I’m here to tell you about one incredible, universal method you can use to grab his attention by showing that you get what he craves most.
Click here now to discover an unfair advantage with men. Could you help him to see you as the one finally?